Happiness

I was not raised to believe that the world OWED me something. I was not allowed to "take" money from adults. I was taught the value in working for what you want.

I was having a conversation with a lady from San Francisco the other day. She wanted to know why I was living in Los Angeles, she wanted to know "was I chasing a dream?"  Chasing a dream???!!! Ha ha ha, that concept is foreign to me. Chasing a dream.... now I love a good nap, and I NEED my beauty sleep.... but chasing a dream? Come on! If there is something that I want in life, I make it a goal, and I give it a deadline.  If i want something, I work for it.  I don't expect anything to be given to me. And I believe in the law of attraction, and that I can have anything that I want, as long as it doesn't hurt others.  But chasing a dream... no bueno... chasing a dream sounds like good exercise and  thats about it.

Recently, I was watching a show and they were discussing the concept of Donald Trump being mentally unstable, then they said he was narcissistic.  I never really knew the definition of narcissistic but when they began to break down the traits of someone with narcissism.... I realized that I love a narcissitic persson.

I don't think that you can change people. You can try to show them there ways, but at the end of the day, the choice for them to change is up to them. You cant change a person or there actions, but you can change your reactions to there actions.

Right now... I AM SO TIRED, of trying to create happiness for someone.  It just seems as if they are hell bent on being unhappy. No matter what I do. I try hard to surprise them with stuff or activities that I think will make them happy. The day or event is going good until.... all of a sudden the fun comes to an abrupt halt because maybe it seems foreign for them to be happy... I don't know.  Im a busy person, I own SEVERAL businesses, so sometimes I just want to unwind, not work and do something fun with my husband.  And then it just always seems to end up in a stupid argument.  at times, all I want to do is to avoid him. He is no longer a source of happiness for me, because I am no longer a source of happiness for him. I don't know if that makes sense.  I try to bring him joy... but he just wants to be angry and unhappy with everyone and everything.

I once read that Steve Harvey said that a man will never be happy until he is where he wants to be in his career.  And see therein lies the problem.  My husband is not happy because his career does not exist. He is here chasing a dream. He is here waiting on someone to give him this dream. We have been in Los Angeles since 2008 and here it is 2016 and he is still waiting on someone to give him his big break! To give him a career. Chasing a dream. He needs to wake the fuck up. No one is going to just drop a career in your lap. You have to work for it.

So, I try to be a supportive wife and try to encourage him to create the career he wants.  He is a drummer and wants to be a professional drummer. He also produces music. So, I try to encourage him in various ways.... some things that I've tried:
1) telling him to create his own band - he gives me excuses as to why it wont work
2) I encourage him to release his own album - he finally did that this year... but wont do anything to promote it.... I guess people are supposed to magically find it at the bottom of itunes somewhere and buy it.
3) I try to encourage him to create a facebook page - he created the page, but wont post content to it...
4) i've tried to get him to go to open mic nights, where he can play - he complains that we live to far, or that he eiither doesn't feel like doing it etc..
5) this list could go on and on... but I will stop.

I am TIRED, I have tried. if a person doesnt want more for themselves, you cant make them do something about it..

If you don't want to do anything to further your career... cool.... don't be depressed sad and angry that your life isnt where you want it.  Just accept the fact, that faith without works is dead.

But, when it starts spilling into my life, and making me sad, this is a problem. I am all about trying to be happy. My mom died of cancer almost 2 years ago. My life has been forever changed.  I think that life should be lived to the fullest, enjoy every moment, because you don't know when its going to be your last.

I dont let minute things bother me anymore. If im not gonna be mad about it 6 months from now, there is no need to raise your stress level today. Let it roll off your back.

Whats the point in being angry at everything and everyone? All that built up frustration leads to sickness in the body.

Im just at a point in my life, where if it doesn't increase my paper, or my happiness, im not interested in it.

I can't convey to you guys right now, how frustrated I am. When you LITERALLY work 10 hour days so that I can have the things in life that make me happy, then the time that you do try to take off to spend with your spouse, it just always ends up in an argument, because deep down, they don't want you to be happy, because they aren''t happy....

I admit part of it is my fault... always trying to make him happy. trying to buy him things to make him happy, etc.... but at the end of the day, none of it is working, so Im going to stop.

What do you do when your spouse is chronically angry? chronically sad? chronically depressed? yet refuses to get any treatment.  Yes, we took a vow, for better or worse.  in happiness and sadness blah blah blah.... how much am I supposed to continue to take? At what point do I get to throw in the towel?

There are no kids, it just the 2 of us.... him being miserable and that is making me miserable.  Trying to talk things out, doesn't work.... im just always in the wrong....  how much more should I take? I am literrally sitting in my closet typing this blog crying my heart out.  Who wants to see there spouse like this? This is horrible.  he doesn't want to do anything about it, and now its affecting my happiness.

Right now, I just wish I could disappear.... So i will just go take me 2 sleeping pills, and try to sleep the night away.

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I'm sipping juices until 6 this week

SIP TIL 6 - Juice detox

Hey Guys,

I got this idea from juicyRX on instagram.  Basically its like the Blue print cleanse whereby you sip different juices throughout the day as a meal replacement.  And then you can eat dinner at night.  I dont think I have the mental stamina to do a full out juice fast right now.  But, i figured I could do the sip til 6 program, with ease. 

This way, I am giving my body a rest from having to digest foods throughout the day.  And then I can still eat dinner at night time so i'm not ravaging.

I think this will be a nice little detox for my fertility purposes as well. 

This morning and afternoon I had this juice:

Half a pineapple
oranges
mint
granny smith apple

It was really good!

And right now its almost 5:00 so I just made myself this savory juice to hold me over:

2 roma tomatoes
2 celery stalks
1/4 onion
little bit of garlic
spinach
2 carrots

I was kinda scare to put the onions and garlic in the juice, but it kind of like "seasons" it.  I think that I'm going to use the pulp from this juice to make my vegetable soup that I also use for cleansing.  (I dont use pasta sauce in my soup recipe though) 

so drink up!

Have you ever done a juice fast? How did you feel? Did you notice your skin was glowing? Did you lose weight?

xoxoxoxo,

Tatiana

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The Magic - by Rhonda Byrne - Day 17

Hey Yall!

Today is Day 17 of The Magic

The title for Day 17 is The Magic Check



We have already been grateful for the money that we have received in the past and are currently receiving.  By now, we should be building up our LOA muscle and getting stronger :)   So.  Today we are supposed to continue to eliminate any negative thoughts regarding money and write ourselves a magical check.  You should think about something specific that you need the money for, then write the check for that amount.  You should then visualize yourself receiving that money.  Holding the money in your hand.  Then going out and doing whatever you were going to do with the money.  It should feel REAL to you.   You dont have to be SO specific with your request/visualization that you state exactly the source its going to come from, but be open to how it will come to you.  Maybe you'll find an envelope with that much money in it.  Maybe you'll put a dollar in a slot machine. Maybe you'll win the lottery, maybe you'll get a raise.  Maybe some one will give you an item worth the value of it...whatever, just be open...

I wrote my check for $2000.  I then had my husband write his check.  He said for $5000.  I said what is it for.  Well $1000 was for a mac laptop that he wants and $2000 was to build himself a custom pork pie drumset and then he wanted..... $2000 for me! Can you believe we were on the same wave length about how much I wanted? He hadnt seen my check and I didnt tell him how much I wrote mine for.  I put both of our checks on the refrigerator, so we can think about it every time we get hungry or thirsty.

I then went to www.thesecret.tv/magiccheck and was just reading some inspirational stories that people were posting about how the Law Of Attraction was working in their lives.  And I realized that one of my law of attraction downfalls is that I tend to generalize what I want and that I need to get a little bit more specific. (like I said above, not too specific).  So, I decided that I would start out small.  For the last few days i've been mentally saying "I always win the lottery" and "I always win jackpots"... So I said, i'll start off by saying that i'm going to win the lottery. I dont care if its $1 or a catrillion dollars.  So I tried to find all of my husband's stray Mega Millions tickets and I was going to take them to the convenience store to see if we won.  If we dont win, no problem, I know its going to happen.  I also decided to buy a scratch off ticket and another Mega Millions ticket for the upcoming drawing on Tuesday (btw....anybody want to give me any numbers?)

I wanted to scratch the ticket immediately, but I decided to wait until I got home so me and the hubby could do it together.  I checked the stray tickets, none of them winners.  As I went to throw them away, someone had spent $80 on 8 tickets and left them unscratched.  I noticed they had only scratched off the code at the bottom and then scanned them to see if they were winners.  They weren't.... but I brought them home too and entered them online for a 2nd chance drawing.... hey... i'm open to however this money is going to come to me :)   Well, long story short... my husband had a winning Mega Millions ticket that I couldnt get to scan... because it was from Oregon... when I checked it online it was a winner, $3! lol.  Maybe thats not much to you, but it proved to me, that I had attracted this winning.  So now, I want more! more more more, lol..

So, what am I grateful for today:

1) I am grateful that we won the lottery because it proved to me that the Law of Attraction works.
2) I am grateful that my parents made it to Atlanta safely today to check on my sister and see their new grandchild.
3) I am grateful that me and my hubby had a long dreaming/visualization session about the things that we want and the law of attraction
4) I am grateful that I was able to retwist my hair in less than 45 minutes and paint my fingernails a cute cotton candy color. I'm fancy huh?
5) I am grateful that I was able to sleep in til 9:00 today.
6) I am grateful that I am starting to go around during the day genuinely saying thank you for random things.
7) I am grateful for the gift of health, because it is keeping me alive.
8) I am grateful that the universe wrote me a check today for $2000, because I know that its going to come to me.
9) I am grateful that my sister was surprised by my parents coming to visit, because they havent seen each other in quite some time.
10) I am grateful that I was able to just relax this Saturday without having to run errands.

MAGIC PRACTICE STEPS:

1. Repeat the Magic MAGIC DAY 1 Practice of Counting 10 Blessing with reason why you are grateful for and reread you 10 Blessings saying Thank You 3 Times after each one. DO this as the first thing in the morning or whenever you get time.
2. Write the Magic check to yourself with your name and today’s date.
3. Hold the check in hand and visualize what all you are doing after receiving the money.
4. Take the check with you today and at least at two instances visualize and feel the receiving of money holding the check in your hand.
5. At the end of the day, keep the magic check at a place where you can see it daily.
6. Do the Magic Rock Practice as per Magic Day 2 Practice when you go to bed at night review through all the good moments of the day holding the Magic Rock in your hand and then choose the best moment and say THANK YOU. 

So what magical numbers are you gonna tell me to play?

xoxoxox,


Tatiana

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The Magic - by Rhonda Byrne - Day 13

Make All Your Wishes Come True

Hey Yall (in my Paula Deen voice)

Today, is Day 13 of The Magic.  I just know that you have your book already and are following along with me......so now that thats settled, lets have a group discussion about today's topic.... Making all your wishes come true.

Our prior 12 days of magical practices have focused on being grateful for the things that are currently in our lives.  However, with today's practice, we are to shift our focus on obtaining our dreams and desires.  

To obtain our dreams and desires we are instructed to think about our 10 most wanted desires and say "thank you, thank you, thank you for desire X"  Then you should think about when you actually have it, what emotions will you feel, who is the first person you are going to tell about it.  Then imagine yourself having it or living it.  We are supposed to say thank you 3 times, because 3 is the number of creation and also because it will prevent you from just idly saying it without feeling it.  If you say it 3 times, you will feel it.

Here are my 10 most wanted desires as of today.  Of course this list will change as I receive them, and as time goes on.  But as of day 13, which is May 13, 2014 here is my list:

1) Thank you, thank you, thank you for the great news that we are going to have a healthy baby.

2) Thank you, thank you, thank you for allowing us to bring in $30,000 of income each month.

3) Thank you, thank you, thank you for allowing us to celebrate my nephews graduation abroad. (somewhere tropical)

4) Thank you, thank you, thank you for our family trip to Africa. (can you tell I love to travel?)

5) Thank you, thank you, thank you that my husband is playing on a steady tour/gig that he loves and I can travel with him if I want to.

6) Thank you, thank you, thank you for allowing me to furnish our home with everything that I love.

7) Thank you, thank you, thank you for the whole family being together during Christmas.

8) Thank you, thank you, thank you for my new BMW that is paid off.

9) Thank you, thank you, thank you for my dream closet

10) Thank you, thank you, thank you for allowing me to be able to give to my family and the churches I have been blessed by.

Here are the 10 things that I am grateful for today:

1) Access to healthcare because everyone doesnt have access to that.

2) That I was able to hire 3 SEO employees today that will help my organic search results to increase which in turn helps me to achieve my business goals.

3) That 1 of the employees started working asap today and has already logged in 3 hours.

4) That I was able to pay a few bills today.

5) That I was able to purchase some meats today for our future dinners.

6) The special time-limited Michael Jackson channel on Sirius XM because it makes me happy.

7) My phone - because it keeps me together both personally and business wise.  Also, it is a source of communication and entertainment.

8) For the natural herbs at my local wellness store so I can make my own fibroid prevention tea.

9) Thankful for Jehovah Jireh because he is my provider.

10) Thankful that my hubby is so trusting of me.

Welp....thats all folks.

xoxoxox,

Tatiana

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The Magic - by Rhonda Byrne - day 12

Day 12 - Magical People Who Made a Difference

With our Day 12 lesson of The Magic we were to think of 3 people who made a difference in our life.  You were to think about what it is specifically that they did to make a difference in your life and then imagine yourself having a conversation with them to tell them how grateful you are for their influence.

So for my 3 people, I chose my grandma (RIP), my mom and my dad

Grandma:

Hi Grandma, I just wanted to thank you for your influence of having an open house on me.  I always saw that you were so welcoming (to everyone....literally) into your house.  Everyone in the neighborhood knew that if they were hungry, that you would feed them...and without hesitation.  And the food was delicious as well!  So today, I thank you for instilling that in me.  I love to cook and feed people.  I always say that you  will always remember the joyous occasions, and also what you were eating during those occasions. You instilled this in my oldest sister as well...Thank you Grandma! I bet your probably trying to feed the angels in heaven :)

My Mamacita:

Mom, I thank you for always pushing me to be a better person.  Thank you for letting me know that I didnt have to be mediocre and that I could be anything that I wanted.  Thank you for challenging me to get better grades and a better education.  I remember when I graduated from college I told you that this wouldnt be my last degree, and I meant it.  With your encouragement and love, I went on to get a law degree and become a licensed attorney in 2 states.  Thank you mamacita!

My Papichulo:

Dad, I thank you for being around. So many children grow up without fathers, but you ensured that you were always present in my life.  From listening to me complain about mom's rules, to us doing yard work together, to us just having a good old fashioned talk about any and everything under the sky.  Thank you for raising me up in the church and with Godly principles.  Thank you dad!

Heres what i'm grateful for today:

1) The internet - the cable company was working on it all day today and I work from home, so that made it hard.  I am thankful that the internet is back up and running.

2) I am thankful that Starbucks has free internet.

3) I am thankful for the awesome tempura recipe that I found.  (I think im gonna do a blog post about that later)

4) I am thankful that a client signed up today.

5) I am thankful that I was able to send off the passport application to my mother in law so she can travel abroad.

6) I am thankful that my sister got a massage coupon from her employer.  We were talking last week about her job has been stressful lately.  I told her to be grateful that she has a job....and then this happens... magic!

7) I am thankful that I found odesk so that I can hire some SEO freelancers to work on my websites to get me top rankings on google for my targeted keywords.

8)  I am thankful for the feeling of "I finally know what I need to do" to be successful.

9) I am thankful for computers because my handwriting is not that great.

10) I am thankful that you can stack manufacturers coupons, Target coupons, text message coupons, and cartwheel offers at Target.  (its a couponing thing, lol)

So.... i'm dying to hear.... what are you thankful for today?

xoxoxox,

Tatiana

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The Magic -by Rhonda Byrne - Day 11

Hey Guys,

Today is Day 11 of The Magic, can you believe it? 

                                                              Day 11 - A Magic Morning

A Magic Morning is one where as soon as you open your eyes you give thanks for being alive.  As you sit each leg on the floor, you give thanks for the activity of all your limbs.  A magic morning is where you feel gratitude for every piece of your morning routine.  Thank you for a hot shower, thank you for fresh coffee, thank you for a clean mirror, thank you for products to keep your breath smelling good, thank you for clothes that you didnt have to sew yourself etc.

Normally, when I wake up in the morning, I immediately say a prayer to GOD for waking me up.  Its our little conversation time.  and then I go about my day.  Today was refreshing, because I forced myself to be conscious of every thing that I used and gave thanks for it. 

Can I be honest with you guys?  I'll be glad when I can automatically do each of these day lessons everyday without having to put so much effort into it. I want my gratitude to just flow so easily.  Right now, I kinda feel like im trying to remember what each day's practice was and continue to practice it.   But then I end up focusing on a few days more intensely then some of the other days lessons.... idk.  I guess as I continue to go through each of these lessons, they will become like second nature to me and i will do them without having to be conscious of the fact that i'm doing them.... did this paragraph make sense to you guys?

Anyways, I enjoyed focusing on all of the little trees of my day that make my forest so magical and enchanted.

Here's what I am grateful for today:

1) Today is mother's day and my mother is still living.... thank you, thank you, thank you
2) That lots of loved ones told me happy mothers day and that they are praying for my fertility.  (it feels good to know that others see the desires of your heart and pray that you get them)
3) For my genuine belief that I will be able to celebrate my first mother's day in 2015.
4) That I was able to put together my dads website so he can begin advertising.
5) My teeth are straightening out due to invisalign and my awesome Encino dentist
6) For our dinner because it was delicious.
7) This month marks 7 years since I graduated from law school.
8) Thankful that my husband plays for 2 churches
9) Thankful that I was able to plan out tentative detains for our anniversary trip.
10) Thankful for my health - because the gift of health is keeping me alive.

xoxoxoxo,


Tatiana

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The Magic - by Rhonda Byrne - Day 10

The Magic by Rhonda Byrne - day 10

Hey Everyone!

The Magic - Day 10 - Magic Dust Everyone

Spread some magic dust love to everyone.  So today, i'm sprinkling some Magic Dust on YOU! yes you! I am so grateful that you have taken the time out of your day to visit my lil apartment on the world wide web aka my blog and see what I have to say.  Thank you, thank you, thank you!

Today we are to think of 10 people who help us or enrich our lives in someway and sprinkle them with magic dust by simply saying the words "Thank You".  Sometimes, thats all people need to hear...are the words Thank You.  Just like the day 8 lesson, (gratitude for food), I tend to have this one pretty down packed too.  Growing up with southern parents and my father being in the military, I was taught at an early age to say Thank You when someone gives you something or does something for you, so I kind of do it automatically.  One thing that Rhonda Byrne pointed out in this lesson though, was to make eye contact when you are saying Thank You.  This is one area I needed improvement in.  Today is actually day 12 for me, but since I missed a few days of blogging (I did the lessons each day on schedule though), I have actually been working on using eye contact when I say thank you.  I want the person to know, that im not just throwing a pre-calculated thank you their way.  I want them to feel like I am sprinkling magic dust on them, and when I use eye contact, I feel like they can feel the flurries, lol. Today, a young couple let me cut them in line at Wal-mart because I only had 2 items.  I told her Thank You when I was getting in front of her and also ensured that she was able to see the gratitude in my eyes when I told her Thank You again as I was done checking out.  I made it rain on her! :)

Here are the 10 things im grateful for today:

1) Finally finishing my office bathroom project ....ok its 90% complete to my satisfaction...but im so happy with it.
2) Thankful that my husband helps with household chores.
3) Thankful for clean sheets on my bed.
4) Grateful for being able to order Kangen Water business cards for me and my dad.
5) Thankful I was able to get my dads kangen water domain name for .99
6) Thankful that I have been doing The Magic practices everyday so far without missing a day.
7) I am thankful that I live in a safe neighborhood.
8) I am thankful for the bank teller Maggie who helped me with my transactions today with a smile.
9) I am thankful that I got to pay my April Mortgage today!
10) I am grateful that "party girl" had a great demo day today.

How about you? what are you thankful for today? dont be shy!

xoxoxoxo,



Tatiana

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The Magic - by Rhonda Byrne - day 9

 

The Magic - By Rhonda Byrne - day 9

Rhonda Byrne instructs us on day 9 of The Magic to be a money magnet.

A lot of the times when we receive bills we tend to gripe and think bad thoughts about them. We have negative thoughts and feelings about the money that we have to use in order to pay these bills.  In essence ,what we are doing is attracting more bills.  If we were to be grateful for the bill, then we would be using gratitude instead of complaints which in turn would attract us more happiness, money and good feelings.

Our special practice for Day 9 was to find our bills and write on the unpaid ones "thank you for the money".  For the ones that we had already paid, we were to write on them "Thank you - paid"

Lets just say I had to write a lot of "thank you for the money" lol.  I shred my old bills, so I couldnt write thank you paid on any of them except my mortgage that I paid today.

Also, any time that I caught myself starting to think about a bill or something that I wanted or needed I stopped myself mid thought and said either "thank you for the money" or "GOD will provide"

Then of course we had our usual 10 things to be grateful for.

Here's what Im grateful for today:

1) I am grateful for finding a new styling product staple that will make my natural hair regiment a lil bit easier.
2) I am grateful that I made it to court on time and had no problems with my client's case.
3) I am grateful that when I got to my office i had a client their waiting to pay me in full.
4) I am grateful that I have enough money to pay my April mortgage now.
5) I am grateful that "party girl" was able to get her car wrapped and some promotional items for her business.
6) I am grateful that I was able to take a nap today.
7) I am grateful that I was able to share a funny video with my sister and make her laugh when she was having a rough day today.
8) I am grateful one of my favorite wines was on sale today.
9) I am grateful that GOD is blessing my businesses.
10) I am grateful that GOD is blessing my marriage.

What are you thankful for today?  Are you reading The Magic? Have you considered buying The Magic? share your thoughts with me.

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The Magic - By Rhonda Byrne - day 8

The Magic - By Rhonda Byrne - Day 8

Hey Guys,

I see that i've got some loyal followers checking me out each day on my blog, thank you so much.  You can feel free to become a subscriber over there  ------------------------------------------------------------>

I just realized that with today being day 8, I have officially completed my first week of The Magic.  I believe that it has been a magical week.  For one, i've had more blog views this week than ive had in any other week since I started the blog in 2010.  Thank you guys so much! I send lots of love and light your way!

Now, lets get down to business.  For day 8, we were supposed to focus our gratitude on our food and drink.  Everytime we ate a meal or snack, had anything to drink we are supposed to give thanks for it.  I normally say a prayer of gratitude over my meals, so today, was a normal day for me.

But, after reading the passage for day 8, it really had me thinking.  You dont really think about just HOW MUCH goes into us being able to get food on our plate.  This pic courtesy of cdc.com paints a clearer picture for us:

Like, we see truck drivers every day, but you never think....thats gonna end up on my plate. lol.  Now  I will be more mindful.  Next time I see a truck carrying a  bunch of cows, I wont be like "ewwww that stinks", i'll be like "thank you, for this will end up on my plate somehow" lol.... I know, im silly at times.

We were to complete our usual task of 10 gratitude items, here's mine.

1) I hadn't exercised during the past two weeks, but im grateful I havent lost the strength that I recently gained.
2) I am grateful that a client paid virtually today.
3) I am grateful that i got to do a little bit of work on all my businesses today (yup, adhd style)
4) I am grateful that our beach blanket arrived today so that I can stop using my sheets when we go to the beach.
5) I am thankful for the great weather today.
6) I am grateful that Kangen Water exists to help so many people's health ailments.
7) I am thankful for having an open-mind and open heart to receive what others are saying and/or feeling.
8) I am grateful for all the people who are in the food industry and ensure that I get fresh and nutritious food when I want it.
9) I am thankful for the new calls that I received today.
10) I am thankful that I can communicate with my loved ones who are 3000 miles away.

what are you grateful for today?

xoxoxoxox,


Tatiana

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The Magic - By Rhonda Byrne - Day 7

The Magic - By Rhonda Byrne - Day 7

Hey Everybody!  I hope you guys had a magical day.  I sure did!

Today, i'll start with the 10 things that I am grateful for:

1) A miracle happened in court this morning.
2) I booked a trip to Las Vegas - because its time for a getaway
3) I am thankful for my websites because they provide me new clients & income
4) I am thankful for my forced "work break" today because I was tired and needed it.
5) I am thankful for everyone who has ever made a sacrifice for me, because I truly am grateful.
6) I am thankful for my church family because we have a good time in church.
7) I am grateful for all the awesome pastors I have sat under because they have taught the unadulterated word of GOD.
8) I am thankful for my kindle because thats how I read my scriptures in church.
9) I am thankful for everyone on my work team.
10) I am thankful for my clothes and shoes.

The Day 7 reading had to deal with the magical power to eliminate negativity.  Meaning that if you have a negative situation that its probably due to your past negative thoughts and actions. So in order to magically change the negative, you would have to have gratitude regarding the problem.  So for me, I used to have negative thoughts about wanting kids.  I thought that I had more than enough time to try to have kids, so if people asked us when we would have kids - the thoughts werent always a positive action into the universe.

The Day 7 magical homework assignment was to think of one problem or area in your life that you want to improve on and create 10 things for which you are grateful.  Me and the hubby have only been pregnant one time and it ended in a miscarriage.  We want children.  So today, I decided to focus my gratitude on our current situation and our future situation with regards to our fertility.

So today I am grateful for:
1) I am thankful that me and my husband are fertile.
2) I am thankful that I am healthy enough to carry a child.
3) I am thankful that my fibroids are disappearing (disappeared)
4) I am grateful for my in-state and out of state support system.
5) I am grateful that we have enough space for children.
6) I am grateful for carrying a healthy and beautiful full term baby
7) I am grateful that I am a wonderful mother and my child can see that.
8) I am grateful that me and my hubby have great co-parenting skills
9) I am grateful that we ahve more than enough money to support our children
10) I am thankful for my children!

AMEN!

What is something that is a big problem in your life?  Have you found ways to be grateful for it so that the situation would change?  Comment below.


xoxoxoxo,


Tatiana

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